Welcome to a journey of self-discovery, one that took me from feeling different and isolated to embracing my identity as a late-diagnosed autistic woman. This isn't just a timeline—it's a reflection on the moments that changed how I see myself and how I connect with the world.

As a child, I knew I was a little different. While other kids ran to the playground, I found comfort in books and quiet corners. I didn’t have the words for it then, but those early experiences were my first steps toward understanding my neurodivergence. I didn't really like playing with kids my age, but would love to spend time with people my grandparents age to hear their stories of their youth and learn of their lives.

Early Realizations

Navigating Friendship and Isolation

In my teens and twenties, I often wondered why forming friendships felt harder than trying to speak a different language. I was honest and direct—sometimes too much so for others. Those years were a journey through loneliness and self-discovery, teaching me resilience even when I felt misunderstood. Joining the military gave me the structure I needed to find comfort in this world.

It wasn’t until my mid-forties that the pieces truly fell into place. I was struggling with feeling like I never belonged anywhere. I expressed this to my therapist, which resulted in an evaluation I never anticipated. Receiving my autism diagnosis was like finally finding the right map for my journey. It brought a sense of clarity and self-compassion that had been missing for so long.

Light of Understanding

Embracing My Unique Path

Today, I see my neurodivergence as a gift that shapes my perspective, my faith, and my ability to help others. This page is a reflection on that journey, and I hope it encourages you to embrace your own path—no matter how different it may seem. I want to help others gain a better understanding of what it means to be autistic, how it is possible to live a successful and fulfilling live being autistic, and find connection, community, and support with others experiencing similar struggles.

Blog posts with the detailed journey and lessons learned coming soon...